On the day
of fertilization (the day after the egg retrieval) Jill and I left to travel
northwest to Berlin, Germany for the duration of our embryonic
development. At that time our job was
done for a few days except for the continuation of drugs Jill has to consume,
and a shot of Progesterone in oil every night in the upper buttock for two
weeks. She thought the ovarian stimulation
shots were a pain in rear until I had to stick a 3-inch needle in her
rear. Of course the first time was
painful for her and I realized you literally had to stab her abruptly with this
almost lethal weapon to deliver the drug intramuscularly. WTF?
Though after the first time I became pretty good at it with almost no
pain at all. Jill is also taking an
estrogen supplement three times a day as well as her prednisolone and folic
acid daily.
However, we
were given a chance to see the beautiful and historic city that Jill and I both
missed our last time we were in Europe.
Finally a city with a normal infrastructure for easier navigation and
sight seeing, and with three days to explore this colossal city, we took to
Berlin. On our first day we visited the
Pergamon and Neues museums on museum island.
Followed by the astounding Berlin Cathedral. After lunch we spent some time around Brandenburg
Gate and the Reichstag Building. The
next day we went to the superb Berlin Zoo, rated the best zoo in the world. We spent about four hours documenting our travels
wandering through the park. We took about
600 pictures of everything we saw to have a plethora of animal pictures to
choose from for our future baby’s room. On
the way back we stopped at an intriguing street market and of course, bought
souvenirs. The following day we sought
out and found our limited edition German beer stein with a piece of the Berlin
Wall on the stein’s cover, and then headed back down to Brno for the final
stages of IVF.
At
Reprogenesis the next day was the egg transfer and there was good news and bad
news but the good news is great. First, the
bad news, of our six embryos only three made it. Apparently this is quite common as the jump
from morula to blastocyst is quite a huge developmental hurdle. Two of the embryos just simply stopped
growing. The third had no inner cellular
mass although it became a blast. At the
blast stage the cells divide into two groups - the outer which will become the
placenta and sac and the inner, which becomes the baby. With no inner cells our embryo could only form
an empty sac with no baby.
On to the good news!!! All three of the remaining embryos made it to become a blastocyst and are AA quality - the best rating they can get. Two of them were hatching - meaning getting ready for implantation and the best possible stage for IVF. The third is an AA expanded blast, meaning it is great quality and about to hatch. We had the transfer on 9/9/2013 and all went well. They put the two hatching AA blasts into Jill’s uterus via catheter and we had the third blast cryogenically frozen and will come back for it later. We briefly considered using all three for IVF, but because they are all AA it would be pretty risky to do so and the embryologist was definitely against it. So our doctor impregnated Jill with our fertilized blastocysts as I sat next to my wife with her hand in mine as we silently prayed for our two little blasts to implant and grow. Jill is now taking it very easy with mostly bed rest on the 10th and 11th, and then also pretty easy for the next couple weeks as well.
On to the good news!!! All three of the remaining embryos made it to become a blastocyst and are AA quality - the best rating they can get. Two of them were hatching - meaning getting ready for implantation and the best possible stage for IVF. The third is an AA expanded blast, meaning it is great quality and about to hatch. We had the transfer on 9/9/2013 and all went well. They put the two hatching AA blasts into Jill’s uterus via catheter and we had the third blast cryogenically frozen and will come back for it later. We briefly considered using all three for IVF, but because they are all AA it would be pretty risky to do so and the embryologist was definitely against it. So our doctor impregnated Jill with our fertilized blastocysts as I sat next to my wife with her hand in mine as we silently prayed for our two little blasts to implant and grow. Jill is now taking it very easy with mostly bed rest on the 10th and 11th, and then also pretty easy for the next couple weeks as well.
To end week
two when Jill was off of bed rest we drove a half an hour northeast to the
Moravian Krast and the Punkva Cave to take a boat ride on a under ground river
the runs through the largest cave system in Europe. A little adventure and fresh air for us after
two days lying around in our hotel room was well needed. Not to mention our 2nd anniversary
on the 10th was spent eating doner kebab and watching BBC World
News. Though we keep on telling
ourselves, “it will be totally worth it,” and now that our IVF cycle is
complete we are in the two week wait to find out our results. However, I apologize to my readers, but our
results (positive or negative) won’t be announced until 12 weeks after IVF
because we fall under the category of a high-risk pregnancy, and we prefer to
keep a certain amount of privacy concerning the actual results. Only our parents will be informed when we
find out.
In the
upcoming week 3 of our IVF journey abroad, we built in 6 extra days for any
mishaps or miscalculations during our trip.
Since everything actually went according to plan, well actually, we were
one day ahead of schedule; we will spend the rest of our time in Europe in
Vienna, Austria and Prague, Czech Republic starting tomorrow (9/12/2013). Now that the IVF portion of the trip is over
and went very well, my last blog post will be the results of our hard work and
due diligence. Thank you for reading and
please keep praying for our success with our IVF journey abroad.